A Life Self-Assessment


When you are born, everything around you helps you to become who you are. Other factors like past lives, good and bad things that have happened and a whole range of energetic factors start steering your life. But rather than just drifting with the tide as you become an adult, perhaps it would be wise to swim exactly where you want to go. If you assume that everything that happens to you is destined to happen, you’re right. If you assume you can steer your own boat or swim against the tide, you are also right. It is all your choice.

All kinds of signs and signals point the way but we humans are determined to let our emotions lead us and that is not always wise. If we need to fulfill an emotional need by becoming romantically involved with the wrong person whose soul vibration is too dissimilar to ours, then eventually the relationship will become so disfunctional it cannot continue. If we pay attention in the beginning and become aware of these sorts of things, then relationship disaster can be averted.

The same is true if we don’t check if it is appropriate to become involved in a financial undertaking and we end up being scammed. Self-assessing should always be a continuous and on-going process. We may not be happy to learn the person we are attracted to is not the right one or this hot financial deal is going to end in disaster. Our emotions can carry us away anyway and we could end up doing it regardless. Then in the end, you get what you deserve. There are always energetic signs, however subtle they may be that you need to change directions.

You see, in this reality, you are the only one who exists. Everyone and everything else is here to reflect to you what you don’t see. It is all here to push you to clear the rubbish so you can see the light that is buried within you. It will distract you along the way, or even kick you into the ditch if you are not paying attention. Nevertheless, you have freedom to make choices as long as you know the fine print is right in front of you to make you aware of whether this is a choice for your highest good or not.

Certain cultures demand that the children obey the parental wishes for career and relationship issues. Sometimes what the parents want is not really right for the child, no matter what the parent thinks. It is hard to abandon family traditions and follow your own path, but in a lot of cases it is necessary to fulfill your destiny.

Sometimes, people are so blocked that they have no idea whether they are on the right path or going down a blind alley. There are some strategies that will work. Using a “yes/no” technique with your body or a pendulum will begin to get you more in touch with yourself and your Higher Self.

To use your body, stand with your feet apart in a natural feeling position. Relax and let your arms rest by your sides. Ask your body out loud (even a whisper will do) “Give me a yes” and your body should tilt in a direction. Note the direction. Now ask your body out loud again “Give me a no”. Your body should tilt in a different direction. Practice this every day until you get a distinct tilt consistently. Then start making statements to yourself like “Julia is the right relationship for me”. Do not ask questions and do not watch yourself. Keeping emotion out of your statements also helps because when you watch yourself and speak emotionally, you are steering your intuitive nature to give you the answer you want, not what is appropriate.

To use a pendulum, tie a nail or a washer onto a piece of string so the washer is above a surface on which you rest your elbow but long enough that it will swing freely. Hold the string between your thumb and first finger. Rest your elbow on a table or other flat surface, bending your elbow upwards so the pendulum swings freely. Use the same yes/no techniques used above to get signals from the pendulum. Once you have consistently ascertained yes/no answers, then make statements dispassionately, getting an answer. Again, do not watch yourself or speak emotionally to influence the result. It takes a while to get out of your own way to get correct and appropriate answers. We are too emotional about things to get clarity. Until you are extremely well practiced, do not rely on these methods for important decisions.


Why we Need to Live in the Present



The present is where the action is right now. This is where all those neutrinos and quarks that quantum physicists talk about pop in and out of the reality. They are what can change a random possibility into a probability. Probabilities of the kind that support our growth and smooth out the bumps in life are what we all really want. We want to mend all those old fences so the pigs don’t get into our beautifully tended garden, eating everything in site and smashing the rest.

How do we know where those pigs are lurking! The signs are all around us. Their footprints are found in our thoughts, in the people around us, in what we see, hear and smell. There is nothing except the Eterneal Stillness of the Universe that is free of those piggy footprints. If we see one small hint in our reality and we constructively work to eliminate it, it will dramatically affect all our future moments.

Let me give you an example. In our community we had a very well known homeless man who slept on the streets and in little sheltered spots in the neighborhood. Try as we might we could not bet him into an indoor space. This went on for years. He was mentally ill but harmless and everyone would give him food and money. Every Thanksgiving and Christmas, he was presented with a large hot turkey dinner with all the trimmings.

We watched him deteriorate, despite all our efforts to help him. Eventually we were able to get him into an indoor space where he had a bath for the first time in years. He had the mats cut out of his hair and he slept in a real bed. It was at that time that he realized how much he had missed all of the things that were being offered to him over the years.

Everyone involved with this individual were trying to help him but his illness and some past tragedy prevented him from acceptiong the help and from trusting us. Now, because of his decision to make a change in the way he lived, despite his fear, which is no small change, his whole life is different now. He is in a warm place, he has a bed to sleep in and three nutritious meals every day.

Each of us has the power to make tiny changes in the way our lives unfold. By making those micro-changes, the pigs will not be able to get into the garden in the same way anymore. It doesn’t mean they are necessarily gone, they are just lurking on the other side of the fence, waiting for the opportunity to break through. By rejecting certain types of thoughts, eating more appropriately, staying away from places where negativity reigns and choosing wisely, every moment after that will be different. And, by continuing to choose all aspects of your life more appropriately, the fence gets stronger and stronger. Soon, the pigs will never get into the garden again and will go somewhere elso looking for food.

Changes don’t have to be huge. It could be as simple as refusing to self-criticize as much. By drawing your awareness to when you do it, you make a decision to do it less and less until you aren’t doing it anymore.

Pick one small thing you want to change and do your best to recognize every time you do it, then stop doing it. Being present in the present is key. What you did a minute or five minutes ago doesn’t matter. What you are doing now, is what is important. Now is where you are creating every moment of your future. If you want it to be better, start now to make it better. You can do this because it is the present.

The Song Of Life


It takes time, energy and focus to turn the supertanker of money, greed, lies, war and manipulation, but that is what a lot of us have come here to do. We are the special forces unit of the light, singing our vibrational song, acting like tuning forks so others will pick up our resonance and sing in harmony with us. We have struggled within our own selves to climb the mountain out of the swamps. It has not been easy but we have character and courage beyond what anyone could believe.

The Modern Weapons Of Light

We are in the trenches of social media, singing our song to those who are lost and hurting, watching the miracles of their transformation, even if we don’t know who they are. We watch the tone of their posts change as they begin their climb up the mountain. We do not judge them or cast them aside. We cheer them on and as the vibration rises around us, we marvel at the beauty and wisdom of the Universe as more and more awaken. And less and less resist. Yes there are pockets of extreme darkness, but it is only a matter of time before their resonance will increase to the point where they cannot hold on to their power.

Changing Every Inch Of Your Reality

Every thought, every word you say and everything you do affects everything around you, seen and unseen. Your energy field is really large and everywhere you go in your community and your world will be affected by you as your energy field sweeps through it. You can change the tone of a whole community by just loving yourself. The vibe acts like a tuning fork sweeping everything into a new vibration and keeps spreading as the new resonance is sensed and taken up. There is nothing to do except to Be and to sing loudly.

Intent- Is Your Intent Conscious or Subconscious


Your intent can bend a spoon
Your intent can bend a spoon
I went to the airport the other day to pick up someone. I checked the arrivals and the aircraft hadn’t landed yet so I went to get a tea and settle in the waiting area. I was approached by a lady on crutches who asked me if I was drinking coffee and promptly told me her mother wouldn’t allow her to drink coffee. She looked like she was in her late forties. I asked her how long she had MS. She registered surprise and asked me how I knew she had MS. I laughed and told her I could see it in her energy field. I continued by telling her that MS was structured in such a way in the energy field in particular ways so it was possible to put MS into remission. I took a business card out of my pocket and put it on the arm of the chair beside me. The next part of the conversation surprised even her. I told her it would be a difficult decision to let go of the |MS because everything was done for her. Since she was out of the workforce for about five years, she would have to go back to work. Now all her meals are prepared, her laundry is done, she is driven everywhere. She basically has a life of leisure that has a finite end point as her disease progresses. She had a madonna like smile on her face as she turned and stumbled away making the easier decision of letting her disease take her. The challenge of letting it go was too much and her decision that she needed her disease was greater than any intent to get rid of it. I picked up my business card and put it back in my pocket.

Why Your Intent Can Destroy You

Your energy field is called that because it is filled with all types of energy. There is mixed debate as to how it all got there but suffice to say you pick up dirty energy just living life, not to mention the energy that is pushed into you by people who want you to do what they want. (You do that too, by the way).These dirty energies all have a voice, some of it is louder than others but all of it has an influence on your life and what your intent is throughout it. For good or bad your intent is influenced within your subconscious mind to the point where you are not even aware that you are making a self-sabotaging decision that will manifest sometime in your future. Make a series of these decisions and life could feel pretty terrible. Your conscious mind becomes overpowered by what is contained in the subconscious so vigilance and patience are required until you learn how to pick your way through your energetic debris.The purpose of these articles is to help you develop the knowledge and felt sense to give you signals to the best intent and direction for you. Keep in mind, there are no right or wrong choices, they all teach you something that you can intend to change or let be. Your intent is a gift, a bonus a trauma or a lesson, depending how you react to it.