When you feel like a victim and that everything is going wrong in your life it can be a very overwhelming feeling and can even sometimes get you into a rut in your life where you just want help out. The best thing I can tell you is that you are, first, not a victim. Secondly, it is all about three things in our life that we can change. We have to first change our mind set into a positive one. We have all had things happen to us sometime in our life and it is how we look at these issues and what we do from that area. You can see the issue that you are going through and make a conscious choice to not be a victim but a survivor and learn from this lesson to go on. Find the positive in the situation and build from that. With every negative thing in the world there is always a polar opposite, so there must be a positive no matter how small that issue is.

Once you have accomplished finding the positive area in your life, you have to focus your energy in a positive way to keep this survivor feeling going in your life and not a victim feeling. This will shift your energy to a positive mindset to continue from that point on. We cannot change the past in anyway, so let’s focus on the present and move forward.

For the energetic connections, after you have shifted your mindset, it is important to have an energy clearing done for the different issues you have gone through. You could be carrying around past karma issues, stagnant energy, or many blockages in your energy fields. These can bring about and attract more of the same and to have a full energy clearing done will refresh your energetic fields and bring in a new light to your life so that things will feel even more happy and clear for you.

After all of this has been done it is up to you to maintain your life. This is where the responsibility factor comes into play. We are responsible for the things in our life and have to take the first step today for all of these issues to draw in even more positive situations, people, and circumstances. For a recap: first shift that mind-set to a positive one, second cleanse and clear all of the negative issues from within your energy fields, and third take responsibility for the things in your life from here on out and you will notice a major shift in your life!

For more help with healings, coaching, holistic training, or just general questions about spiritual, energetic, or holistic work, feel free to contact me at HealingArtForms@aol.com

Many Blessings
Nicole Lanning

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What Does It Take To Be Happy About 75000 Dollars

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Don’t ever think you cannot do something because you perceive some sort of limitation. Open your eyes and your heart and you will see the possibilities. Use your will to create the life you want. It’s all up to you. You will be amazed at how strong you really are

Wanna fly high? Get some attitude. I don’t mean that cocky look at me attitude. I’m talking about that unshakable confidence and quiet surety that comes from knowing you can do whatever you set your mind to.
Some recent studies have actually shown that attitude controls about 90 percent of our physical health and well-being. That’s a pretty strong percentage. Only about 10 percent is attributed to diet and exercise and all that physical stuff. Don’t get me wrong, a terrible diet does nothing to promote good health, but that poorly nutritious diet has everything to do with attitude. You eat poorly because of some emotional damage that compels you to seek out that taste good feeling of comfort foods. The compulsion for comfort is much stronger than the realization that it is a destructive path.
You can change your attitude however, by giving yourself a little pep talk and make some choices. Do you want to be healthy and strong or sick and weak? Do you want to be miserable and depressed or forward thinking and happy? Do you want to have something to get out of bed for every day, or do you want to lay in bed and pull the covers over your head? There is so much to do, to accomplish and to experience, I cannot imagine anything else. My attitude is important to my everyday experience, just as it is important to yours.
Look at the alternatives in your life. Choose how you want to live your life. No one can make your life better, but you can by changing your attitude about everything in your life. Changes can include how you frame your thoughts, whether they are negative and critical or positive and constructive. You can also look at what you eat and what you think about food. Do you overeat? Do you eat enough? Do you eat a lot of junk food or sweets? What do you think about your job and your boss? Are you grateful for your job and all of the things that your job provides? Are you grateful for what you do have or are you always wanting more? Do you appreciate your partner and acknowledge everything they contribute to your relationship?
I know you have an attitude about everything, but is it the right attitude to support your dream life? If it’s not, it’s time to take stock and find out what you need to change. Always remember, everything around you will shift, once you decide what you want, and shift. Don’t play the blame game. Acknowledge what you have contributed to make a situation what it is. Shift your attitude into a more proactive and positive frame of mind. The results may surprise you.
Once you shift your attitude, you will notice a pleasant shift in your energy. A good headspace translates into a tremendous day where flow is very evident and better circumstances seem to appear. The trick is to maintain that positive, uplifting attitude. That is where a mentor can help, someone who can talk you out of your funk and help you create a more positive mindset for yourself.
If your mood is particularly down, exercise can improve your attitude. Put on some dance music and move for a few minutes or watch something ridiculous on YouTube and have a good laugh. You must shift out of that low gear any way you can. Once you do, write down everything about your life that you are going to change. Start with one thing and work on it every day until you have broken the habit and mastered it. For example, if you are going to try to drink more water, try to drink more water today than you did yesterday, and so on until you are drinking half your body weight in ounces. If you need to eat less sweets, take chromium, build up your mineral reserves and your cravings will probably disappear. If you have childhood emotional issues, try EFT or find an expert healer who knows how to remove that memory from your energy field. If you need a mentor or an expert energy healer, let me know. I do awesome work by distance.
The point is, only you can change the circumstances in your life. There are three basic types of people, the victim, the perpetrator and the victim. At different times in your life, and sometimes every day, you are each of those types. If you want to step out of that loop, shift your attitude or find someone who can help you. You owe it to yourself to manifest your dream life. It’s time!

Every day we make choices based on our emotional storage cabinet in a concept I call active memory. Active memory is actually an awesome tool, if you use it in the right way. Unfortunately, our subconscious mind uses it as a defense against emotionally or physically painful experiences. We actually become disempowered and sometimes even crippled by what we fear.
If a child gets caught in a house fire and becomes burned, even a little bit, that memory is forever etched in the body. Whenever the child/adult sees fire in the future, that stored memory activates and the child is on guard, and ready for flight. It could be as small as a candle or a bonfire on the beach. Lifetime after lifetime, that memory is brought forward until it can be released or erased. That energetic imprint will create limitation after limitation because the mindset is going its job. Sometimes the stored memories become distorted. A case in point is the girl who grows up in an abusive household and gets into relationship after relationship with abusive men.
Every choice we make will be based on our stored memories. Some of those memories were so painful, fearful and terrifying that we will avoid making choices to go in those directions. The most terrifying, seem to draw us to them unavoidably over and over again. Some women seem to get into one abusive relationship after another and can’t seem to get out of that loop.
Some choices we make are avoidance of what the subconscious deems simply, “I don’t wanna!” The reasons are always subconscious. The overt appearance may look like laziness, selfishness or any of a long litany. Some of the behavior and actions are so subtle that we are actually not aware that we are doing it. It’s time to pay attention to our behaviors and choices so that we head in the right direction.
Even choosing what to eat can have profound effects on your health and vitality in the future. Pigging out on comfort foods that just satisfy a pleasure response is not a wise move for future health. It doesn’t matter if the choice is easy to make or not, it will impact whether or not you become closer or farther away from your dreams.
If you want to get closer to your dreams, you need to pay attention to why you will do some things and not others, why some choices are easy to make and some not. Listen to your head talk as you mull over your choices. The faster you say no, the more compelling the reason to look at why. If what is before you is clearly a scam and you are saying no because you have learned from a previous scam you have been caught in, then your decision is appropriate. But what if you are saying no because you are assuming it is a scam? You could be missing out on a golden opportunity.
All of your thoughts, feelings and beliefs come together to bombard you. The ones that we habitually experience come from our stored memories, whether we remember them or not. They create our self-image, self-worth, self-esteem perceived social positioning and all of our internal programming. Our thoughts, feelings and beliefs literally create all the limitations in our lives, subtle and otherwise, until we become aware and discerning enough to do something about it. From my perspective, since it’s all energy, it’s a piece of cake. It just takes commitment. Are you ready to manifest your dream life?

Most people lead very busy lives. Their heads are constantly full of thoughts, worries and stress. In addition, most people don’t know how to relax and de-stress. When it’s time to go to bed, do you look forward to a restful, peaceful night, only to toss and turn yourself to sleep, only to wake up feeling like you’ve wrestled an elephant? Are you ready to break the cycle?
You see, all of the thoughts bouncing around inside your head like a pinball machine are foreign energy. That is, energy that doesn’t belong to you. Most of it comes from karmic sediment in your energy fields with a little bit of active memory. When you don’t have the skill set to discern where this foreign energy is in your fields and remove it, then you need to apply a different method. Not everyone has access to an expert healer, particularly at the exact moment that you need them, so until you can by-pass the head yapping, you can do one of two things.
You can attend my meditation course, where I actually remove karmic sediment while you are meditating. Over the course of the six weeks you will have a lot of sediment removed which will make meditating a relaxing activity you will look forward to. In addition, during those six weeks, I teach you techniques to allow you to go deeper into yourself to hear the whispers of Spirit within.
The second way is to use brain entraining CD’s? They are the fastest way to de-stress and relax without having an expert healer by your side. All you need is a CD player and a set of headphones. The binaural beats imbedded into the music and sounds on the CD whisk you into a place where the brain responds. All of you stress melts away and it is just you and the music. The CD’s will not get rid of the foreign energy, but the music will temporarily override the incessant yapping until you can get to see an expert healer. Sometimes a few moments peace is worth it.
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I wonder how many of you can honestly say that you live your life with a complete absence of doubt. Can you actually imagine what it would be like? There would be no little voice inside your head screaming at you in its shrill little voice, “You’ll be sorry!” Your self-sabotage voice would get permanent laryngitis and be unable to natter at you about anything.
On every level of your being you would know that the pull you feel inside you, which may be neither gentle nor subtle, is in the driver’s seat and you have no choice but to go along for the ride. As one of my clients so clearly put it “God would never put me in harm’s way.” He is so clear about that and so focused on his belief that there is no fear left in him anymore. He just knows. When the doubt went, the fear went with it.
Some of my clients that have been with me for a number of years have made huge inroads in their lives. I won’t say that they have total absence of doubt, but some of them are pretty darn close. It’s an amazing feat, knowing that you’re doing what you’re supposed to be doing and nothing can stop you from succeeding in it.
How did they get like that, you ask? Guts, perseverance, determination and partnership for I have walked beside them every step of the way. I probably know them better than they know themselves.
Its very rewarding to allow my inner guidance that lovingly, clearly and confidently led the orchestration of their lives. The flow and the ease in which it happened is awe-striking. Sometimes a client is pulled from the jaws of some deep, dark abyss that threatens to suck them into the forever of darkness. Its all about gently bringing them back to a place of warmth, security and safety with gentle loving arms, cradling them until they could stand once again with renewed strength.
I truly recognize the miracle that my life is, even with all the appearances that try to knock me off my path and into some innocuous activity with little purpose and plenty of distraction. But, I know deep down that I am being guided by a firm and strong hand so pure and so sure that all of the egoic attempts to steer me away are in vain. My focus is strong, My doubt has virtually disappeared. The clamour of voices is gone so there is virtually only one voice to listen to. If I listen to it, it will lead me with a sure hand.
I wasn’t always like this, so don’t think I was lucky being born aware. My awakening journey is only 13 years old in 2009. It has taken me a lot of work, struggle and determination to get to this place. While the clamour of voices was going on I had to make choices as to which voices I listened to. I had to gain insight as to which voices were in which game and who was trying to trick who. Above all, I had to develop discernment as to which voices were the cheerleaders and which ones were the opposition.
My self-sabotaging voice has disappeared totally. I remember when it was so logical and rational and seemed to be so right. A lot of times, it had me totally convinced and I followed its advice, after all, it sounded so practical that I actually tried to disconnect the other voice, the one that truly had my best interests at heart. After a while, I actually stayed on the line, more and more, listening and taking a giant leap of faith over the chasm of doubt, fear and uncertainty, only to find that I was perfectly safe and sound. Steadfastly, I’ve hung on the line, waiting and listening for the next hint, the next step until the moment of now, where I know than nothing is impossible. With diligence and work you will discover that you really can fly and after a while, you don’t even need a net to catch you, because you won’t fall ever again.

With some of us, the Universe is not very subtle. It bops us on the head and suddenly we’re different. I’ve always been curious to see how other people have experienced “the Universal Call.” It seems like some people have had a road map pushed in one ear and they just seem to have a complete set of directions on exactly where they are to go and how they are to get there.

My awakening was similar to that but I must say, I didn’t always know where to go or how to get there. Sometimes when I knew, I didn’t know what I was supposed to do when I did get there.

For those who have never had an awakening experience, what would it be like if they had one? It is a very definitive experience. One that is unmistakable. Some people seem to wait their whole life in expectant anticipation for their Universal Call. I, on the other hand was not in the least expecting anything like it when it came.

When the Universe smacks you upside the head it seems to light a fuse of explosive action that sets in motion a whole series of events that take you beyond anything logical or rational. Your logical mind cannot rationalize its way out of this one! You are swept beyond your comfort zone and all the excuses your mind could come up with are unceremoniously brushed aside. You’re in for a ride now, bumps and all. Even the old creaky-springed jalopy is called into service to carry you through this quickening.

At first you’re still in doubt and trepidation about the unknown that is looming in front of you but over time you cannot deny the huge but gentle loving presence that is propelling you into a deeper state of oneness. The voice is so soft and clear, yet so strong.

You never know when an awakening will happen. Some people seem to be born awake so the awakened state is all they know. When you are abruptly dragged from your life into another way of being it can be quite a shock. On one hand, you don’t quite know what to make of it all and on the other, every cell of your body, at every level of consciousness knows that another piece of your life has just slipped into place. At first it seems quite effortless, after all, it just happened. Then a vision of the new reality opens before you. As you try to adjust to this new way of being, the ego tries to slip you back into old ways and old habits. You suddenly realize that they are now very uncomfortable and very cumbersome. Some great divine choreographer pushes you into a new dance of trying to empty your cup of the old drudgery and stickiness that was the way a while ago. We are forced to surrender, to have faith and trust in the process. Some of the bumps we experience are large indeed as family and friends try to cajole us into the old ways.

The new way is much more inviting as the clear gentle voice beckons us ever closer. Then the karma hits and bounces us around on large waves of discord as we try to navigate and find our way through. This is punctuated by that crystal clear voice whispering…”This way.” There is nothing left but surrender to the truth of who we are and the purpose we have chosen.

What If I Told You That Something That Is Bothering Your Health and Well Being May Be Very Simple To Fix!

When I look back on my life, I realize that I was a quiet renegade. I really didn’t fit in anywhere but somehow in some small way, I decided to make a difference. Now that I’m older, I know that a lot of what I’ve been told or taught about the world is not true. Maybe that’s the renegade in me but I happen to have proof. I have a bit more courage than I had back then, so I’m going to shout it from the rooftops.

Chronic disease is only chronic if no one knows how to fix it! I’ve found out a few very important pieces of the ‘chronic’ part of the puzzle. Hundreds of my clients will tell you that what I say is true. I’m going to share pieces of it here and on my other websites that are linked here. You may be shocked at how simple it can be.

Basically, in the simplest terms possible, you are an energetic being in a physically dense form. You resonate naturally at a certain frequency. Other energies, which I call foreign energies, penetrate your energy fields and cause physical responses to their presence. Through life, these energies build and create dis-ease by causing pockets of your energy to resonate at lower frequencies. It doesn’t seem to matter what condition you have, your body will react to foreign energy in the same way. These foreign energies can even affect the quality and amount of food you eat and drink. It gets even more interesting.

Funnily enough businesses and even relationships act in exactly the same way. If your business has hit the skids even though you are a competent business person, maybe we should talk.

I am an energy therapy specialist. I believe that your body is a miracle. Given the right conditions and the right opportunity, your body knows how to fix itself. Some take a little longer than others, but there can be slow or dramatic progress in the cessation of the condition. It depends on a number of factors individual to you.

Right now, my success rate is between 90- 94 %. I don’t deal with your condition in the same way as a medical health professional would. I have a much different approach. I have developed several techniques and systems that can reduce symptoms, no matter what they are or where you are. They work over distance as easily as if you were in my clinic.

Energy therapy is not for everyone. Some people are very skeptical of anything that does not come out of a pill bottle. Some people have no framework on which to reference this type of healing. But, in the end, it doesn’t matter. It works whether you believe it or not. You don’t have to be a believer to receive a miracle from yourself.

If you are ready to prove that your body is a miracle, let’s hang out and see where your body or your business takes us. If you are on a consciousness path, you’re welcome to join me on the most exciting journey you will ever undertake. Welcome to my world!

Look around at all your friends and even your family. In many ways these groups are a lot like each other. Yes, there are striking differences but there are underlying undercurrents of similarity. Out of all the differences between us, the most remarkable is attitude. You’ll notice the people with what you think is a good attitude, generally have it all together.
There was this guy called William James. He lived over a century ago and he said it perfectly. “The greatest discovery of this generation is that a human being can alter their life by altering their attitude.” If we are motivated enough, we can change our attitude, but sometimes when life doesn’t go quite right, we set this “super-tanker” of doubt and disbelief in motion that takes a while to steer in another direction. It doesn’t turn on a dime.
While our process of changing our attitude is taking place, we sometimes think our lot in life is to suffer endlessly and there is no hope. This change in our situation that we are seeking is taking too long and the appearance is that what we are trying to do is not working. We want to give up and we think things are never going to change. This is the farthest thing from the truth. You could be just a hair-breadth away, so don’t ever give up.
You see, attitudes are contagious. Your attitude not only affects you and your life, it affects everyone in your circle, including the check-out clerk at the supermarket. It ripples through your world like a stone dropped into a still pond, and if your attitude gets heavy and cumbersome, that stone could sink your life into an unpleasant place.
I will admit that when life is not going right, it is probably karmic residues in your fields that need to be addressed. You need to see an expert healer in dealing with that sort of thing, it can be quite complex. It is really hard to maintain a positive attitude when all you want to do is take a bottle of pills and end it all. In fact, it is next to impossible.
I have this unfailing attitude and belief with all my heart, that anything can be fixed. It requires a sharp eye and the vigilance of a cat watching a mouse hole to find the right key to unlock the prison that some people feel they are in. Peeling off the layers with respect and gentleness is key. Not everyone is fortunate enough to live close to me so I guess that’s why I have been gifted with the ability to work very effectively over distance.
While it is important to have a positive and uplifting attitude you have to start somewhere. So start where you are. Sit down and look at your situation. Do you want to change it? Do you want more than you already are? If you do, are you prepared to do what it takes to get it? Are you prepared to let me walk beside you and assist you to get where to want to go? I’m not saying this will be an easy or a quick process, but it is do-able. Do you think you are worth the effort? I do, or we wouldn’t be having this conversation. Think about it. You’ll know where to find me.