Who’s in Your Life, Anyway?


Our personal world is different that every other person’s world. Yes, there are places where we touch each other so there can be an inter-connection that creates a net between whole communities of people. Our preferences however, make us believe we would rather not have certain people in our lives. But what do those people represent? Why are they here disturbing the reality you want to create?

The net that connects the present all together could have been created a long time ago, in another century, in another age. We haven’t always been so civilized and nice. Each of us has during one lifetime or another done some bad things. The energetic memory of those events still resides in our energy field, lurking in some hidden place away from our current awareness.

The people we interact with and the people we hear about on the news are pings that spring from those energetic memories. It doesn’t mean we are going to turn into what we hear on the news but those who have an overwhelming amount of those terrible energetic memories, sooner or later have a spill-over that causes them to become violent.

For most of us however, most of the people you interact with or hear about are reminders for us to reach deeply into ourselves and pull out the shards of pain and suffering that are reflected to us. As we learn and grow and see whatever is in front of us as a gift, that person becomes the perfect one to give us a poke as a reminder of who we really are and why we are here.

Why Humans Need Negativity to Learn


It seems that the reaction of a response to a stimulus is still an effective way to make changes in character or behavior in a person. I don’t know how many times I’ve heard how people have been told by a doctor that they are heading for a health crisis and they need to change their eating habits and start exercising. A negative hit to create a change in behavior. I see it everywhere, except with some of the negativity, people just think the world is against them. They do not equate what is going on with anything positive. They do not have the conscious awareness that they need to change to see change in their world. The point is in order to have what you’ve never had, you have to become someone you’ve never been.

The duality of our inner and outer world has many benefits if only we could see where we are heading. If we had the foresight to change course and begin making small changes in how we live, there would be an outward swing of that inner pendulum and we would see it in all aspects of our lives.

We see it in people who start to move more and can only walk a minute or so at a time. They learn to walk a few seconds more each day until they can walk for longer and longer periods at a brisker and brisker pace.

This is also true in a spiritual sense. So many people feel alone, abandoned and isolated because they believe their own thoughts. If they started to reject those thoughts in favor of other more positive thoughts, the negative starts to drift away like a fog in the wind.

Negativity is never meant to be a permanent thing. It is a stimulant to choose change. What we choose is part of our freedom to do so. If we continue to choose the negative, that is what we get more of. If we choose to reject negativity in all its forms, more positive happenings occur to us and our immediate world.

It seems that when we are complacent, there is not much impetus to do anything much. When we are in a painful position, we are prodded to change, to take some form of action, if only to reject negativity and welcome the new dawn of more positive thinking. Reminds me of that book called “The Power of Positive Thinking”, written in the last century.

There are many anecdotal stories of people who have been hit over the head with something negative hard enough that they have seen it as a wake-up call. Making change is never easy but living with negativity and its consequences is much harder. If you see your life as more negative, start rejecting those thoughts and start changing one behavior at a time and make small changes every day. You too, may end up standing in a new day of a beautiful sunrise.

The Genius Creator That You Are


Your reality emerges from within you. Your eyes interpret the energy patterns which tell your brain what you see. Creation is an awesome activity and as you look around you, you can see you are indeed an awesome creator. The human group field is like the movie the Matrix where everything is inter-connected and everyone seems to have consensus on certain things like the sky is blue and trees are green.

As you’ve heard, unconditional love is eternal, it never changes. Divine Consciousness is the source of unconditional love so it to never changes. Everything that is real is also the same in the beginning, the middle and the end. Because what you see is always changing, it is not real, it is an illusion.

This illusion has been designed so that Divine Consciousness could experience everything through you – the good, the bad and the ugly. It is a static entity that has nothing better to do than be entertained by everything you do and experience.

So however freaking awesome your life is, how to you get more good and less bad and ugly? One of the Universal laws states that the Universe is mind, the Universe is mental. In other words what you see is created by collective and individual thought. To change how you see everything you just need to change your thoughts. If enough people agree with you and change their thoughts then the reality can shift in a big way- the revolution in Egypt, the world climate change action plan and so on.

Your personal thoughts affect your personal reality in much stronger ways than you realize. How do you think one lone house is left completely untouched in a forest fire when everything around it is burnt to the ground? Or how do you think one person recovers and one dies with the identical cancer. Thought follows energy.

So, if your life is not as awesome as you would like, examine your thoughts and see what you find. You may be surprised what you have hidden away in your energy field that is affecting you as a Creator.

A Life Self-Assessment


When you are born, everything around you helps you to become who you are. Other factors like past lives, good and bad things that have happened and a whole range of energetic factors start steering your life. But rather than just drifting with the tide as you become an adult, perhaps it would be wise to swim exactly where you want to go. If you assume that everything that happens to you is destined to happen, you’re right. If you assume you can steer your own boat or swim against the tide, you are also right. It is all your choice.

All kinds of signs and signals point the way but we humans are determined to let our emotions lead us and that is not always wise. If we need to fulfill an emotional need by becoming romantically involved with the wrong person whose soul vibration is too dissimilar to ours, then eventually the relationship will become so disfunctional it cannot continue. If we pay attention in the beginning and become aware of these sorts of things, then relationship disaster can be averted.

The same is true if we don’t check if it is appropriate to become involved in a financial undertaking and we end up being scammed. Self-assessing should always be a continuous and on-going process. We may not be happy to learn the person we are attracted to is not the right one or this hot financial deal is going to end in disaster. Our emotions can carry us away anyway and we could end up doing it regardless. Then in the end, you get what you deserve. There are always energetic signs, however subtle they may be that you need to change directions.

You see, in this reality, you are the only one who exists. Everyone and everything else is here to reflect to you what you don’t see. It is all here to push you to clear the rubbish so you can see the light that is buried within you. It will distract you along the way, or even kick you into the ditch if you are not paying attention. Nevertheless, you have freedom to make choices as long as you know the fine print is right in front of you to make you aware of whether this is a choice for your highest good or not.

Certain cultures demand that the children obey the parental wishes for career and relationship issues. Sometimes what the parents want is not really right for the child, no matter what the parent thinks. It is hard to abandon family traditions and follow your own path, but in a lot of cases it is necessary to fulfill your destiny.

Sometimes, people are so blocked that they have no idea whether they are on the right path or going down a blind alley. There are some strategies that will work. Using a “yes/no” technique with your body or a pendulum will begin to get you more in touch with yourself and your Higher Self.

To use your body, stand with your feet apart in a natural feeling position. Relax and let your arms rest by your sides. Ask your body out loud (even a whisper will do) “Give me a yes” and your body should tilt in a direction. Note the direction. Now ask your body out loud again “Give me a no”. Your body should tilt in a different direction. Practice this every day until you get a distinct tilt consistently. Then start making statements to yourself like “Julia is the right relationship for me”. Do not ask questions and do not watch yourself. Keeping emotion out of your statements also helps because when you watch yourself and speak emotionally, you are steering your intuitive nature to give you the answer you want, not what is appropriate.

To use a pendulum, tie a nail or a washer onto a piece of string so the washer is above a surface on which you rest your elbow but long enough that it will swing freely. Hold the string between your thumb and first finger. Rest your elbow on a table or other flat surface, bending your elbow upwards so the pendulum swings freely. Use the same yes/no techniques used above to get signals from the pendulum. Once you have consistently ascertained yes/no answers, then make statements dispassionately, getting an answer. Again, do not watch yourself or speak emotionally to influence the result. It takes a while to get out of your own way to get correct and appropriate answers. We are too emotional about things to get clarity. Until you are extremely well practiced, do not rely on these methods for important decisions.


The Song Of Life


It takes time, energy and focus to turn the supertanker of money, greed, lies, war and manipulation, but that is what a lot of us have come here to do. We are the special forces unit of the light, singing our vibrational song, acting like tuning forks so others will pick up our resonance and sing in harmony with us. We have struggled within our own selves to climb the mountain out of the swamps. It has not been easy but we have character and courage beyond what anyone could believe.

The Modern Weapons Of Light

We are in the trenches of social media, singing our song to those who are lost and hurting, watching the miracles of their transformation, even if we don’t know who they are. We watch the tone of their posts change as they begin their climb up the mountain. We do not judge them or cast them aside. We cheer them on and as the vibration rises around us, we marvel at the beauty and wisdom of the Universe as more and more awaken. And less and less resist. Yes there are pockets of extreme darkness, but it is only a matter of time before their resonance will increase to the point where they cannot hold on to their power.

Changing Every Inch Of Your Reality

Every thought, every word you say and everything you do affects everything around you, seen and unseen. Your energy field is really large and everywhere you go in your community and your world will be affected by you as your energy field sweeps through it. You can change the tone of a whole community by just loving yourself. The vibe acts like a tuning fork sweeping everything into a new vibration and keeps spreading as the new resonance is sensed and taken up. There is nothing to do except to Be and to sing loudly.

Consciousness -Your Favorite Consciousness Blanket


Albert Einstein was so wise when he said “God doesn’t play dice.” You were made perfectly, filled with so much love and light. As life came along day by day, it was like blankets were thrown over you, some by you and some by others so you couldn’t see your true self any more. You were protecting yourself from the coarse world you perceived around you. Others were forcing untrue identities on you and telling you untrue stories. Sometimes they even attacked you energetically. Bruised and battered you retreated under your blankets and you forgot who you are.

The Self within you is gently stirring now, encouraging you to throw off the blankets of identities that are not you. Throw off the “I am too fat, too thin. I am poor. I am ugly. I am unlovable. I deserve to die. I deserve to be punished. I hate the world. Life is hopeless.” mentality. It is your blankets talking and not you.

Take a deep breath and shut your eyes. Briefly touch on a painful experience from your past and feel the tightness somewhere inside you. What you feel is the energetic imprint of that event or part of it. If you have tightness or discomfort in other parts of you, it has probably happened more than once but you may not remember. There are all kinds of theories about past lives and karma but just for a moment, recognize the tightness as a sign post where love is absent. Don’t put any other thoughts or memories on it. Imagine what love would be, whether it is a feeling, a red rose, or whatever comes to your mind and picture yourself filling that tight space with it and say to yourself, “I love how you love me!” Love is all there is and love does conquer all. Feel a different sensation in that place you felt tightness and you will notice the sensation expands a little and you feel slightly different. If you don’t feel anything, don’t worry, just keep repeating the exercise every time you think of it and soon your outer world along with your thoughts will begin to shift.

The love I speak of is not the chick flick romance movie stuff. It is much deeper than that and has the ability to open your life to a much more satisfying experience where you rip off those blankets one by one and gradually come out the other side as a different person. This can be a very painful experience now and then but the rewards of releasing yourself from this dark prison are immeasurable. You will become very different than you are now and you will love who you truly are.